The Benefits of Exploring Your Sexuality with a West London Escort : Let’s be honest, it might be easier than it was in decades past to come to terms with being a lesbian, but as 2020 looms ever closer- coming out isn’t as easy as it should be.
As your sexual curiosity blooms, it might be time to seek an expert.
Contending with the pressures and expectations of society, having to fit in a box, being “gay enough”. There are so many subtly explosive nuances to being a lesbian in this day and age that it’s really difficult to just do, especially if you’re not entirely sure what to expect.
Bisexuality is its own bucket of worms, with a less than glowing reception from either community. Pansexuality is possibly even worse. So how do you know? How do you separate kink from lifestyle, and love from lust? Well, might we suggest the professional stylings of escorts in West London.
Gay for Pay
Many women who work for various UK escorting agencies are happy to schedule an evening with a woman. While generally, their job brings them male clients, most are happy to include the ladies for play time. In fact, we even met one west London escort that flipped the entire concept on its head.
“I’m actually a lesbian. All of my romantic relationships have been with females. While escorting, I see primarily males, it actually helps me further separate my work from my real life.”
This force of nature says that she’s understandably a bit leery when she books a female client, but isn’t against the idea. “I can definitely understand how hard it is to self-actualize as a gay woman. Coming to terms with the idea can sometimes be just as hard for that person as it is for their friends and family members.” As our friend has asked to stay anonymous, we’ll just call her El. El says that when she was first starting to come to terms with her own sexuality, what she found most uncomfortable was her lack of experience.
“For me, it just seemed like every lesbian I knew completely understood what it was like to Be A Lesbian. Like there was some book on it that I hadn’t read.” El talks about how hard it was for her to work up the confidence to ask out her first crush, and how hard she got shut down. “I was literally laughed at.” She remembers. “It hurt because I felt so rejected by everything, my own body and this larger community.” El says that once she became an escort, it was so much easier for her to find confidence in her own brand of sexuality. “I think it helped me realize that being a lesbian is about one thing- a desire to engage in physical and romantic relationships with other women. There is no right way or wrong way to be gay.”
The Cost of Exploration
Another one of the top girls at Amys escort London says that one of her favorite parts of being an escort is getting to help other people self explore. Em (yes, another clever alias) says that for her, it’s actually the best part of the job.
“Helping people grow is such a massive part of being an escort in London. You meet people who are almost afraid of themselves and frustrated with their own thoughts and desires. Helping them get out from under that mass of guilt feels really good.”
Em says that despite the normal associations that people make about escorts, her job really is all about helping people. “Sometimes people just really need a safe space to talk through things. Top realize that, yea, they might be different, but it doesn’t make them this bad thing.” Em tells us that she’s had a few ladies book with her over her 3 year stretch as an escort in west London, but one tends to stick in her mind. “She was this more mature woman. She had been married for 40 years, had three kids that were all grown and was just massively depressed and sexually stunted.”
Em says that for ages, the woman had fantasies of being with another girl. “That’s what got her off. That’s what she was into. But she was so ashamed by it and felt really locked into this existing life that she had built.” The woman booked Em on a whim and soon became a favorite regular. “It was so nice to see her happy. From her first appointment to her last- there was just this incredible change. She was finally happy and absolutely radiated it.”
“Sexuality is a very individual and widely varying thing,” El reminds us. “And life is just too short and precious to force yourself into the box of what other people think you should be doing.”
The Benefits of Exploring Your Sexuality with a West London Escort