If you are ready to begin living the life you always wanted? Ready to enjoy success, happiness and more? Ready to be more confident? If we don’t change our thoughts and beliefs, everything stays the same. If we don’t take control – nothing changes. We may have to learn how to regain control of our life. As we are aware, quitting a habit developed by us long ago, or achieving an important goal can be extremely difficult. You could go crazy trying to succeed at just one seemingly simple thing, only to fail again and again.
You may have already given up on yourself. But don’t quit just yet – there is a way to begin living the life you want and more. How? It is just your determination, renewed determination to do so. You really truly have everything you need already inside you. You can achieve anything you want – and all you have to do is train your mind to work with your subconscious mind. It’s like training for success. Before you can begin achieving your goals, you first have to know what you want – and that means you need to get focused.
Getting Focused.
If you want to achieve your goals, improve your life, enjoy life or discover your true calling – whatever it is, if you want to achieve you may first have to decide what is important and then come up with a plan. You don’t have to come up with all the details but you have to come up with a list of what you want to achieve,and have a general idea of how you plan to get there.
Did you know that 80-percent of people who write down their goals achieve them.
Yet less than 5-percent of people in the world actually write down their goals and desires? Those are astounding figures – and think about it – just by simply writing down your goals, objectives and plans you increase your chance of success and achievement by 80-percent.
Did you also know that most successful people and the wealthiest people in the world write down their goals and come up with a solid plan of action – before they became successful? Now you know why they’re successful.
Why does coming up with a plan and decision make such a difference?
Because when you make a decision, write it down, come up with a plan – you tell your subconscious mind, and you send out a message – that you’re ready for success and that you will accept nothing less than success. It’s a powerful message that supercharges your subconscious mind to get moving on achieving these goals.
Start by getting focused; learn to decide which goals you truly want to accomplish, then begin sending your subconscious mind the right instructions to help you achieve your goals.
Discovering What You Want
Some of you may say: “I don’t know what I want to do. I can’t decide what I want to do – how can I write down anything if I don’t know what I want to do?” This is a typical response. But you know what? You do know. Deep inside you there is a passion that has been covered up by negative thoughts, negative thinking, and confusion from all those years of doubt and fear. How do you discover this?
First, you may have to start thinking. Just, start thinking about what you want to accomplish in life. Fast forward to five years from now – what does life look like?
What are you doing? Think of the ideal situation. If you start doing that you’ll get your mind moving in a certain direction. Decide what you want then supercharge your subconscious mind by giving it the right instructions so that you begin attracting the situations and people that will help you achieve your goals.
The Power Of Your Mind
The mind is an incredibly powerful tool – yet we only use a small portion of it and when we do – and we use that portion poorly. Researchers have proven that our mental state has a direct impact on our body.
If you’re stressed or worried for most of the active time available at your disposal- you stand a better chance of getting sick. You need to give up those worries or stresses, created by you due to indecision, and which occupy your mind. Free your mind for more productive work. The mind is an incredibly powerful tool – and when you use it correctly – you’ll be able to get back on track, discover what you want and why and start creating wonderful opportunities in your life. Why? Because your subconscious will pick up the messages from your mind and act on it. We create what we think and what we think sends out a vibration that attracts similar thoughts and people who share similar thoughts. Think of thoughts as vibrations – that are picked up by the subconscious and the universe and manifested in reality.
Beliefs have powerful vibrations and will be manifested sooner.
So if you constantly say you don’t know what you want to do, or you’re not sure, or you can’t figure it out – you’re only going to create more confusion and you’re only going to attract situations that will confuse you even more. Stop this never-ending cycle of confusion and begin thinking about what you want. Negative thoughts create negative beliefs, which are negative vibrations – in the end you attract negative situations, negative people and a negative lifestyle. Begin creating the right vibrations, and the right energy to attract the opportunities, people and situations to help you achieve your goals.
The Key To Success
If you want to be successful at anything you first have to believe that you can accomplish something. Your key to success is your belief system. If you have a negative belief system then your success will be limited. If you have a positive belief system, then, you will enjoy success after success and a rewarding life.
You know! How our beliefs are our vibrations sent to the subconscious mind and the universe. These vibrations are then manifested in reality. We’re going to get into how your limited beliefs create a limited reality and what you can do to change that. Unfortunately most people don’t believe that they can achieve their goals. They often wish they can – but they don’t truly believe this. In the end, they have a negative belief system that limits them. Why? Because a lot of people have been conditioned to believe that things are difficult, that life is tough, that you have to fight to get to the top, etc. These are all limited belief patterns that will destroy your chances for success. Any negative thought pattern or belief will create a vibration that will ultimately limit or destroy your chances for success.
Where do these negative thought patterns and negative beliefs come from? For most of your life, your mind has been reacting to situations, listening to others, following what other people say and basically going in a negative direction.
Why? Because your mind has never been told what to do.
Look at it this way: There’s your mind – which contains all of these negative thought patterns and negative beliefs – and then there’s you – who wants to achieve all these wonderful goals. However, you have negative thought patterns that go against your ability to achieve your goals. For example, you want to be successful in your job. But your thought pattern is that you’re no good that you can’t even do your job well, no one likes you, they’re going to make cuts and you’re next. If you have such a negative thought pattern and negative beliefs about your abilities – no matter how much you may want to do better and no matter how much you may want to improve your performance at work – it won’t happen.
Why not? Because you don’t believe it will happen. Every belief you have is picked up by your subconscious mind and manifested in reality. Negative thought patterns lead to a negative belief about particular areas of your life.
We must understand that our subconscious mind doesn’t distinguish between what is good or bad for us and what is for you. It doesn’t say: “Hey, let’s not do that – it won’t be good for you.” That moral clause is in your mind – your subconscious simply responds to the instructions from the mind. Those instructions are your thoughts, and beliefs.
That’s why if you have a negative belief about something – your reality will represent that belief – and you continue to believe it – because you think it’s true. It becomes a vicious cycle, which you created in the first place because of the negative thought pattern that you held on to for so long. The only way you can break it is to change your beliefs – then your reality will change. Start changing your beliefs today and begin taking control of your life right now.
How To Be successful
If you want to be successful, enjoy happiness and inner fulfillment, and become more confident – then start examining the areas that need improvement. Then, take the next step and make note of your thought patterns? Do they limit you? Are they getting in the way of what you want to achieve? Do they help you accomplish your goals? For example, you want to meet the right person – but you believe that there are no good men or women out there in the gathering you are going to attend. You believe that relationships are difficult and that you can’t have
a long-term relationship with someone. You believe that all relationships come to an end due to some or other reason. No matter what you do, no matter what you try, you’ll never meet the right person because your limiting belief system will stop you and sabotage every relationship and every opportunity for a long-term relationship.
If you have a negative belief system about money or success, if you worry, stress out, or get scared about the future – your subconscious will act on these beliefs and make them your reality. In many ways, you destroy your own life based on the negative thoughts that you constantly have. Negative beliefs and negative thought patterns will make your life miserable.
Where do these negative beliefs and negative thought patterns come from? They come from how you interpret your past experiences, they come from your upbringing, they come from your childhood experiences, they come from conversations you’ve had with friends, neighbors, and people you trust.
If you wish that these negative thoughts should not live with you for ever, they won’t have to live with you forever. They don’t have to be a part of your life from now on.
You can change these negative thought patterns and negative beliefs – into powerful positive thoughts and beliefs so that you achieve your goals and live the life you want.
It is essential to revisit yourself to be happy. We may discuss about some more tools in our next post. In the meanwhile, we may begin our revisit of ourselves.