5 Effortless Ways to Build Attraction on a First Date : You only get one first impression, so it’s normal to be anxious right before a first date. One of the things you’re probably worried about is whether or not your date will be attracted to you. Sure, they must be somewhat attracted to you if they swiped right on Bumble or Tinder for you, but you’re probably still wondering if they’ll be attracted to you in person.