Tips for Choosing the Perfect Songs for Your Wedding

Tips for Choosing the Perfect Songs for Your Wedding : Many couples often overlook the decision to create a perfect music playlist for their wedding day. And as part of the essential elements that set the tone of your celebration, music cannot be underrated.

Some couples think that perhaps choosing a wedding song is a “quick to-do” thing, while others have difficulty selecting the right music for their big day. Well, whatever situation you’re in, you’ve got to know there’s much to do when selecting your wedding songs.

This article gives you music songs to get you through your wedding day.

Let’s go through them.

Getting Ready Tunes

The getting ready part of your wedding day sets the tone for the rest of your big day. It lets you calm your nerves while helping you appreciate the presence of your guests and bridal party. Having the right music playing in the background can create a relaxing atmosphere.

Choose songs with a slow tempo and soothing vocals to create a calming ambience.

Wedding Ceremony Music

Your wedding ceremony is the day’s highlight, and the right music can add a magical touch. You have several options to consider, including traditional, contemporary, or even instrumental pieces.

The music choices should flow with the ceremony activity, such as:

Parent’s entrance, Groomsmen and Groom
Bridesmaids
Bride
The signing of the registry
Recessional song

Some popular song choices for the processional are Pachelbel’s Canon in D, Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring by Bach, and A Thousand Years by Christina Perri. Upbeat songs like Signed, Sealed, Delivered by Stevie Wonder or Marry You by Bruno Mars can create a fun and celebratory atmosphere for the recessional.

Cocktail and Dinner Music Hour

During the cocktail and dinner hour, you may consider soft and mellow music that still sets the right tone for the event. Jazz, swing, and bossa nova are popular genres for this part of the wedding day. Songs, like Fly Me to the Moon by Frank Sinatra or At Last by Etta James, can create a romantic ambience, while Michael Buble’s Haven’t Met You Yet can add a modern twist.

If you get a live band performance for your wedding, acquire their set lists and pass them to the DJ. This ensures no song crossover, and guests enjoy cool, relaxed, fresh tunes through the night.

Reception Music

The reception is the time to let loose and have some fun. You want your guests to hit the dance floor and have a great time, so choose songs that are upbeat, energetic, and appeal to a broad range of ages. Your wedding band or DJ can help you create a playlist with popular songs everyone knows and loves.

The different songs should coincide with the following activities in the reception:

Wedding party grand entrance
Bride and Groom’s grand entrance
First Dance
Father Daughter dance
Mother Son dance
Wedding Party Dance
Cake cutting
Garter toss
Bouquet toss
Last song of the night

Plan and Work With Your Wedding Band/ DJ

One of the most important decisions you’ll make when it comes to wedding music is whether to hire a band or a DJ. Both have their advantages and disadvantages, and it ultimately comes down to personal preference and budget. Bands add a live music element that can be a real crowd-pleaser, while DJs offer more versatility and can play a broader range of songs.

Once you’ve decided on whoever you want to work with, consult with them to create a playlist that fits your vision for your big day. Give them a list of your favourite songs and artists, and let them know the genres and styles you prefer. If you have specific songs you want to hear during certain parts of the wedding day, communicate that as well.

How Many Songs Should You Pick?

When selecting songs for your wedding day, the number can vary depending on the length of your wedding and how much music you want to incorporate. As a general guideline, you’ll need about 15-20 songs for the ceremony, including prelude, processional, and recessional. For the cocktail and dinner hour, plan on 30-40 songs, and for the reception, around 60-80 songs.

Consider dividing up your request list music into two categories for the DJ:

The must-play and
Play if possible

The must-play list contains songs that are the most important to you, and you can provide 15 of them while 15-30 songs for the play if possible category.

Start Your Pick Right-away

Don’t wait until the last minute to start selecting the perfect songs for your wedding day. Start right away and have your DJ prepared for the big day. Remember, your wedding is supposed to be a magical event… a day you’ll remember for years. So, don’t overlook choosing the perfect music because it will go a long way in making the day memorable and fun.