As Valentine’s Day approaches most girls will be hosting and attending numerous parties or going out with their friends. If you are single and you find it difficult to find the right guy, you should definitely read this post! The point is that men that you do come into contact with might have looked the other way because of your actions. You might not have realized those small things which you say and do that leaves you intimidating and how ended a relationship before it even started. First impressions can last forever, remember this! So if you don’t want to go dateless on Valentine’s Day, you really need to start now! Here are a few tips for finding your love before Valentine’s Day!
1. Do things alone
It’s extremely difficult for men to get a woman’s attention if she is with her friends while out at events. In romantic movies, guys will often approach a group of girls and ask to speak with a young lady or ask to dance, but the reality is that men approach women who look available. If you are interested in getting chose when you are out, make yourself open to conversation.
2. Leave something to the imagination
When it comes to conversation on the first date, here are a few don’t’s. Don’t talk about your exes, learning and job! I know most men appreciate an accomplished, successful woman, but don’t run down your resume at the first meeting! It can make you seem uptight or make a man intimidated.
3. Take things slow
I know, you are getting older and you don’t have time for playing flirty games and you want not to waste your time, but asking lots of information during a first date conversation is not good. People always share information with those they’re comfortable with. In fact, it can take several dates to figure out that the person isn’t for you.
4. Look beyond the physical appearance
Another way to find your love before Valentine’s Day is to look beyond physical appearance. Try to ditch the weight, height and physical appearance requirements. If you really enjoyed the conversation with a man, and he’d like to continue the conversation over a meal, or on the phone, let him do so.
5. Don’t expect him to pay for you
Asking a man to buy you a snack, drink, or lunch is never good upon first meeting. Trust me, if a man is willing to buy a drink for you, he will do it. Expecting or asking is one the fastest ways to guarantee that you will be dining or drinking alone.
6. Don’t get too comfortable on a first date
How you met a man is how you have to look on the first date and how you have to remain until after several ones. Honesty is vital, but showing your true colors isn’t always appreciated. Getting to know the real you is a part of the process, that’s why don’t change in attitude or appearance until deeper feelings are at play.
7. Find out his intentions before turning him down
When you are out, it’s to be expected that you might participate in a conversation or be interested in a dance. Remember, you have a choice in who you converse or dance with, but if you respond with an attitude, you probably should have stayed home. Each conversation or dance doesn’t mean that a man wants to at once take you home. Sometimes, a conversation and a dance is just that, so try to find out his intentions before turning him down.
These are all ways to find your love before Valentine’s Day. Do you know some tips to make a guy to approach you? Share your thoughts, please!