6 Ways to Show Your Bridal Party Some Love

6 Ways to Show Your Bridal Party Some Love : You love them enough to ask them to stand next to you on one of the most important days of your life. They love you enough to spend, on average, upwards of $1,000 to make that day as special as possible.

They’re your bridal party, and it’s important that you show some appreciation for all their hard work.

In the thick of wedding planning, brides might forget that being a bridesmaid isn’t just an honor. With all of the errands and expenses, it’s kind of a huge favor!

We’re here to talk about 6 awesome ways you can show your bridal party some extra love!

Remember That Your Bridal Party Has Other Stuff Going On

Of course, your wedding is your number one priority in the months leading up to it. Time stops when the caterer cancels or the florist calls to say that they can’t get in your shipment of orchids in time.

You can count on your bridal party to help you when you need them to, but don’t forget that they have lives, too! In fact, they’re already putting their lives on hold to be there on your big day–asking for time off of work, using some of their savings to book their flight, leaving their fur babies with pet sitters.

If one of your bridesmaids can’t be there for the dress fitting or can’t pick up the phone to remind you that the world isn’t ending over a cake topper, don’t sweat it. It doesn’t mean that you aren’t important to them. It just means that they have to take care of business in their own life, first.

Remind them regularly the planning process that you appreciate every moment of their time! They’re probably more than happy to help, but it’s always nice to know that your help isn’t being taken advantage of. And don’t forget to talk to them about things other than the wedding sometimes!
Buy Them Accessories That Fit Their Style

It can be hard to find bridesmaids dresses that suit each of your bridesmaid’s styles, especially if you want the same cut and color for all of them. As long as the dress you choose isn’t disastrously ugly, your bridal party will forgive your choice even if it isn’t what they’d pick for themselves.

When it comes to the accessories, it can be nice to throw in some variety! This is your opportunity to show your bridal party that you see their unique qualities and give them something they can wear long after the wedding is over.

For the bridesmaid who loves vintage glamour, try out a string of pearls. For the modern fashionista, dazzle her with a statement piece. Use your in-depth knowledge of your gals to find the accessories that they’ll love!
Treat Them to a Spa Day

Everybody loves a little pampering, and with all the stress of wedding planning a trip to the spa is just what the doctor ordered!

But don’t send them off on their own. Look for a bridal party spa package so you can all enjoy the royal treatment together!

Not only will this give your bridal party an opportunity to unwind but it will also give them a chance to get to know each other a little better. The more comfortable they are around one another, the easier it will be for them to let loose and have fun on your wedding day!

Alternatively, if your bridesmaids are not spa day people, then you could look online at bridesmaid gifts that may hold a a higher sentimental value for your bridesmaids, this could be anything from a personalised gift box with their favourite luxuries to matching satin robes to wear on the morning of your big day! Whatever gift you choose for your bridesmaids is sure to go down a treat, as they will feel loved and appreciated!
Share the Spotlight with Thoughtful Introductions

Of course, time is a huge asset on your wedding day and you can’t eat up half an hour with lengthy introductions. That being said, you can have the emcee say a few words about each girl during the introduction of the bridal party.

Maybe you want to throw in a note about how long you’ve known each other or how you met! Little details about your friendships can give your guests some insight into your relationship with your bridal party and make your bridesmaids feel special.

Not doing a bridal party introduction? Designate some space near the guest book or seating chart that has pictures and profiles of each member!
Write Them Notes

Whether you want to give your bridal party handwritten letters before the ceremony (you’re risking some major tears here!) or in the weeks leading up to it, a personalized note can mean the world.

This is your chance to break out the inside jokes and embarrassing stories! It’s your chance to show each of your bridesmaids individually why you’ve chosen them to be part of your wedding day and how much their friendship means to you.

Part of why something like a handwritten note is important is that you really won’t have time to talk to your bridal party as much as you’d like to on the day of your wedding. Of course, you’d love to gush to your girls and share a few laughs and tears with them. However, the rest of your guests will be waiting to speak with you, too, and you can’t leave them hanging!

Giving your bridal handwritten letters gives them a personal memento to hang on to for years after your wedding is over.
Dedicate a Song to Them

Surely, you can squeeze one song into your playlist that will get all of your girls out on the dance floor!

Tell your DJ in advance what to play and when to play it. Ask him or her to make an announcement that this one is going out to the bridesmaids, and surprise them with a jam that’s just for them.

Having a song together will give you a chance to come back together even if you’ve had to spend most of the day spread out across the venue!

Happy Bridesmaids Make for a Happy Wedding

Don’t sacrifice your friendships for the little details that make your wedding run smoothly. No matter how picture-perfect your wedding day is, it won’t be as fun if your bridesmaids are feeling sour! Take the time and effort to show them how loved they are and remind them how glad you are that they’re there.

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